You should probably read the Newsweek article before this blog entry...
Newsweek Article: Straight Jacket
The Advocate with Kristin Chenoweth's Response
Where, where, where to start. This article has gotten tremendous attention and a lot of this scrutiny has come from K. Chenoweth's response. First off, Kristin has been badmouthed in the past for being less than outspoken about LGBT issues when her fan base is so heavily gay (we all know the queens and the middle school Broadway buffs are the ones buying her albums -I probably have one from 7th grade). This attack on a personal friend has caused her to lash out, winning the hearts of her gay fans. BUT, I think she misses the point on some things. (Also, Sean Hayes seems to have gotten mixed reviews from everyone for his performance in
Promises, Promises... including the gay community.)
Ramin Setoodeh, the journalist who wrote the article, is gay (according to
The Advocate). I'm not saying that makes everything he said excusable (like the suggestion that LGBT actors should stay in the closet... not excusable), but I think it means the article can be read in a different light. Chenoweth, and lots of other irate bloggers, have become outraged over Setoodeh's "claim" that gays can't play straight, but I think his argument brings up more questions than conclusions. Setoodeh is not arguing that gays can't play straight as much as he is saying that when society has placed a label of "gay" on someone like Sean Hayes, it's hard for them to comprehend him as anything else. Setoodeh is bringing this issue up and I think it's an important one to talk about... and it's exciting that it is getting so much attention.
Honestly, he's right. People, unfortunately, do have a fascination with human sexuality; especially sexuality that is different from the majority. This is because of its "newness" in the grand scheme of things. LGBT people are beginning to be recognized for the first time as "normal" people who have the ability to be in loving, committed relationships just like straight people! (WHO KNEW?) This fascination is something that society will overcome in time... or at least I hope it is. When a "gay person" is understood as having the exact same needs and wants as a "straight person" this won't be an issue. We can look at it for what it actually is... Sean Hayes (as a person... not as a gay man...) just wasn't necessarily suited for the role in the eyes of some reviewers. He, as a person, maybe wasn't the best choice, or maybe society can't make a judgement call yet. In the same way Mickey Rourke probably couldn't play the lead in
La Cage without raising some eyebrows because audiences couldn't get over his macho persona (however... I might pay to see that.)
It comes down to understanding that "gay" is a label that makes things easier to understand for people who might not otherwise understand it at all. In a recent interview with
The Advocate, Cynthia Nixon claims that she is "gay" politically (which is important in this political climate) but that her sexuality is not necessarily label-able. (
Cynthia Nixon Interview) Once people understand that everyone is somewhere on the scale between "straight" and "gay" Sean Hayes will be criticized as an actor... not as a gay man. (Cynthia Nixon won her Tony for
The Rabbit Hole, playing the role of a grieving, straight, mother, while offstage with a female partner... I'm just sayin')
So, basically, I say to all the world, get over the labels. Embrace the people for people. After all, people who need people are the luckiest people in the world. Don't rain on my parade. And lots of other Barbara Streisand quotes.
In other news... I went to a baseball game tonight and it was terrifyingly heteronormative and all the men there looked alike in their pastel polos, short shorts, baseball caps, and sperry topsiders (with no socks). I felt frumpy compared to all the women. What is this place they call South Carolina?
Until later,
SC